Dear Sunny,
It’s very good that you want to be friends with this girl. I understand your problem. Faced with the trouble, you should learn to put up with her faults and don’t be so strict with her. Here are some solutions to this problem I offer to you. Firstly, you can try to talk with her, exchange your feelings. Secondly, I know you’re an active girl, and you can invite her to take part in your activities, which is much helpful to develop your friendship. Thirdly, you can share your happiness with her and try to find topics which both of you like to discuss. Gradually, you will find you’re becoming more and more humorous.
I’m sure you will become good friends, and try your best to make it come true. In one word, only when you take her feelings into consideration can you assure your own happiness and can you be friends.
二中 高三（12）班 裘孜文
Dear Sunny,
It’s very good that you want to be friends with this girl. Friendship is a kind of heart-to heart actions so that both of you need to make it better. You are an active girl and don’t care about small matters, so you can easily capture others’ attention. But have you thought of her? She is a timid girl who wants to live quietly. As a result, there are unhappy things that happened between you.
Don’t worry. It’s easy to solve the problem. Firstly, you should “accept” her. You can talk more to her about these same topics both you like after you have known more about her. You can use your active character to make her more outgoing. So you can share your happiness with each other. Secondly, let her “accept” you. Take more time with her. When both of you are together, you should take more notice of your manners, and think more of her. After doing this, I think she will enjoy every minute she spares with you, so that she won’t get angry with you about small things.
I’m sure you’ll become friends sooner or later. 三（12）
四中 高三（10）班 周 莹
Dear Sunny,
It’s very good that you want to be friends with this girl. You are different from each other, so if you want to make friends with her, you can do the things as follows.
Firstly, you can communicate with her. Through communication you may know more about her. For example, habits, sorrows, what she likes and so on. Then you may do less harm to her, you will get along well with her.
Secondly, you can invite her to take part in your activities, talk about something in common, share sorrows and joys with her. If you do such things, not only can you know more about her, but also she can know more about you. Then she can understand you are kind, friendly enough to be her best friend.
The ideas above are my personal ones, but they can be useful. You can have a try.
民兴 高三（1）班 蒋芃芃
Dear Sunny,
It’s very good that you want to be friends with this girl. According to your account, I think the girl may be somewhat a sensitive person. The best way to renew your relationship with her is to learn more about each other since you two have quite different characteristics.
In my opinion, you should chat with her more often. Just bring up some topics which can interest both of you. Your relationship will become better and better through these little talks gradually. Moreover, you can invite her to take part in your activities and try your best to cheer her up. Last but not least, share happiness and sorrows with each other. A friend in need is a friend in deed. If you can share her feelings, you’ll surely become good friends one day.
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Dear Sunny,
It’s very good that you want to be friends with this girl. In my opinion, you’d better first have a heart-to-heart talk with her, which is a good way to understand more about each other. And you are also expected to ask her to participate in all kinds of activities with you and your classmates, such as birthday parties, going out for a walk, discussing some fashionable topics, and so on. After all, helping each other is also very important for both you to build up a good friendship. Just try to share happiness and sadness with her. And it is certain that she will understand you in time and that you will be good friends in future. Good luck to you!
Yours,
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